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THE LITTLE THINGS DO ADD UP
By: Om Mohammed
It is a common human trait
that we view things of little value individually as rather unimportant, or as
just as their face value expresses-possessing little value. However, when they
occur or are somehow collected in greater numbers, their little value adds up to
a greater sum value.
THE LITTLE THINGS DO ADD UP
By: Om Mohammed
It is a common human trait
that we view things of little value individually as rather unimportant, or as
just as their face value expresses-possessing little value. However, when they
occur or are somehow collected in greater numbers, their little value adds up to
a greater sum value.
Take, for instance, the current
internet “app store” of Apple for the iPhone and iPod. There is, at this online
store, a wide collection of applications of various levels and attractions for
the iPhone and iPod, most at a very seemingly minimal cost of $0.99-$3.99. Some
are even free, while others may be slightly more than the high end of what has
been mentioned. But in the long run, they are most reasonably priced, enticing
the shopper into buying and downloading more, by the very virtue of their
inexpensive nature, while offering the customer something seemingly worth it for
the price.
Now, this message is not meant
as a sales-pitch to promote Apple products or services, nor is it meant as a
pitch against any other possible applications services on the internet. My point
is that, we humans have this rather negligent tendency to overlook the overall
sum price, while concentrating on the lesser amount for the single thing. When
you may find so many of the applications offered through the iTunes app store
online rather cheap individually, they can eventually add up to a rather great
sum in the long run when you non-chalantly download application after
application. The same thing can be said about the various discount stores
around, which offer their merchandise for 5 or 10 riyals a piece. The more you
buy, the more you end up paying. The low price of the merchandise itself is a
sales-pitch to entice customers into the store in the first place.
The same idea can be applied to
our sins. So many of us take for granted that the smaller sins (those that are
not of the major level) are of no great importance, and so we carelessly indulge
in them daily, ignoring the fact that they do indeed add up to a great sum,
perhaps greater than what we will ever reach in committing any of the great
sins, simply because of our care in avoiding those major sins. Because of the
great value of the greater major sins, we take great care in avoiding them, or
in searching for the proper method of expiation concerning them, yet we
carelessly neglect the fact that the smaller sins do indeed add up to a great
sum, much as buying small particles or services for pennies eventually adds up
to a dollar, the numerous one dollar items eventually running a bill of tens of
dollars, and so on and so forth.
Perhaps more often than not, we
do not even realize when we do indulge in committing these more minor sins, in
fact, not even realizing that they are sins at all. They come into what is
called the “grey area”. In Sahih Al-Bukhari, in the Book of Knowledge, we find a
valuable hadith in which the Prophet (pbuh) is quoted in telling us about this
very “grey area”.
Narrated An-Nu'man bin Bashir:
I heard Allah's Apostle saying, “Both legal and illegal things are evident but
in between them there are doubtful (suspicious) things and most of the people
have no knowledge about them. So whoever saves himself from these suspicious
things saves his religion and his honor. And whoever indulges in these
suspicious things is like a shepherd who grazes (his animals) near the Hima
(private pasture) of someone else and at any moment he is liable to get in it.
(O people!) Beware! Every king has a Hima and the Hima of Allah on the earth is
His illegal (forbidden) things. Beware! There is a piece of flesh in the body if
it becomes good (reformed) the whole body becomes good but if it gets spoilt the
whole body gets spoilt and that is the heart. “ (Sahih Al-Bukhari, The Book of
Knowledge, hadith #49) **(the Arabic word “Hima” means “refuge” or “sanctuary”).
Hence, from this hadith we
gather that there is an area of things in this life in which it is not perfectly
clear if these things are permissible or not. It is because of this suspicion or
lack of knowledge of the permissibility of these things, that it is best to
avoid them, in order to be on the safe side.
There is yet another area in
addition to this questionable or grey area, and that is the area of things that
we do not realize even that they are wrong or even forbidden - things of which
we have no real knowledge or awareness.
In that case, you may be
thinking, how can we prepare ourselves to avoid such things? Or, even, how can
it be that we can be held accountable for such things, if we have no true
knowledge of them?
To begin with, we ourselves
need to raise our own awareness by simply learning the basic guidelines of the
religion and what is expected of us. Secondly, we need to become aware in
general of all things, and what it is that entails rendering a sin or doing
wrong against Allah and His rights.
First of all, we need to be
aware that Allah has a right upon us, and we also have a right upon Allah.
Interesting? Allah’s right upon us (mankind) is that we worship Him alone,
associating no partners whatsoever with him in any manner at all. All else (of
obedience to Allah and His commands) falls in line after that. And our right
upon Him is that He not punish us if we comply with His right. (taken from Sahih
Al-Bukhari, The Book of Oneness (Tawheed), hadith #470).
Now, revolving around this
basic essence of first realizing that Allah is One and then validating that
realization by worshipping Him as One, we then come to the point of being aware
of what consists of correct and wrong behavior concerning Him and His Majestic
essence. Here is where it is necessary to become aware of what is permissible
and what is not.
One of the most common and
easiest ways in which any of us enter into sin is the slip of the tongue. The
most commonly understood meaning of this aspect is either sinful talk, such as
unnecessary swearing and taking the Lord’s name in vain, or indulging in vulgar
language, gossip, or other such sinful manners of speech. However, there is yet
another way in which many of us enter into sin with our tongues, and what makes
it even more dangerous is that this type of sin by the slip of the tongue is
something which so many of us enter into unaware and unintentionally.
One example of this is how,
many years ago, as I recall hearing a religious verdict publicized in Saudi
Arabia from the Permanent Sitting Council for Religious Verdicts, was the
warning and reminder to the people to not say in one sentence “Allah and
so-and-so”, for this is in fact a means of associating a partner with Allah. The
correct way to say the same thing, yet avoid the sin of associating partners
with Allah is to say: “Allah and then so-and-so”. It is the way that it is said
that changes the meaning entirely, and something which so many people overlook
to begin with, and many others, when hearing this reasoning, sadly respond in
negative manner ridiculing those who have come to this understanding.
Another example is something
more recent and perhaps more relevant to today’s cyber society. Throughout the
history of the world, even non-Muslims have many times come to the realization
of the validity and importance of Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon
him) in this world. Encyclopedia Britannica has been quoted as saying
that Muhammad was the most successful of all Prophets and religious
personalities.
As I said, a recent development
in this cyber society is an online survey asking people to select the
personality that they think deserving of winning the title of most popular
historical personality. As I recall, there was several years ago a result of a
similar survey posted in Time Magazine, and Mohammed (PBUH) rated rather high in
the ranking, and the reasoning given was that he was more influential even than
Jesus because of his all-encompassing personality: he was a leader (political,
religious and spiritual), family man, teacher, guide, and much more, whereas
others did not meet those high standards encompassing so many facets of human
kind. More recently is an online poll surveying people to respond with their
input as to whom they think should rate highest in this poll seeking to find the
most influential historical personality. Emails have been sent out to unwitting
recipients, encouraging them to cast their vote for Muhammad, playing on their
heart strings to vote for their favorite man, reminding them that it is their
duty as a Muslim to love him enough to vote for him in this race.
The reason I bring this up is
because this survey has somehow come to the attention of some of our respected
scholars here in Saudi Arabia, and it has recently been brought to my attention
that it has come to the point where an official religious verdict has been
issued and publicized warning Muslim to NOT participate in such surveys which
involve voting for Muhammad. Their reasoning is that there is no comparison of
any human being to Muhammad. We are told very clearly and without any doubt or
question in the Quran, directly from Allah, that Muhammad is the best of
mankind. So, how can there ever be any comparison, before his existence on this
earth or after his death, with any other human being? Surely, there is no
comparison of anyone to him, and he is the best hands down to all others, so
there is not only no reason to vote, but a very good reason NOT to vote. In
fact, casting your vote in such a survey may even shed a light of doubt on your
own faith in essence, because of the feeling of the need to vote to somehow
“prove” to the non-believers of the high stance that we hold our own Prophet.
It is a well-established
essence of human nature that any adherent to any religion will of course hold
their own prophet in higher respect than the prophets of other religions. So,
what is this contest, then, but a mere contest to see how many Muslims will
enter and cast votes vs. how many Christians vs. how many Jews vs. how many
Buddhists and so-on and so-forth??
The whole point of this message
is that we need to raise our own consciousness of what we do and say, evaluate
things before we actually take any action or make speech, to determine whether
or not this thing we intend to do or the words we intend to say are truly
worthwhile and do not involve any possible transgression against Allah or the
message of Islam in any way, shape or form.
It has been recorded that the
Prophet (PBUH) said: "A slave (of Allah) may utter a word which pleases Allah
without giving it much importance, and because of that Allah will raise him to
degrees (of reward): a slave (of Allah) may utter a word (carelessly) which
displeases Allah without thinking of its gravity and because of that he will be
thrown into the Hell-Fire." (Sahih Al-Bukhari, The Book of Ar-Riqaq, hadith
#485).
We need to weigh our words
carefully before uttering anything, and seek Allah’s forgiveness much, for so
many times we may fall carelessly or even unintentionally into sin without even
realizing it. I pray that we may be enlightened enough to learn what is most
beloved unto Allah, and to be so strong as to put that knowledge into daily
practice. May Allah guide us all to that which is best, and forgive us our sins,
those that are in the open and those that are concealed, and those that we know
about and those that were are ignorant of.
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